livingwithdisability:

Tips for First Time Wheelchair Pushers

(this is a REBLOG from the awesome and highly recommended Latentexistence blog)

“Today my sister used a wheelchair for the first time. (We share the same inherited mitochondrial condition.) Her husband has little experience of pushing a wheelchair so I tried to give him some tips, which resulted in what I have written below. Believe it or not there is actually some skill involved in pushing a wheelchair and keeping the person in it comfortable. These are just observations from my own experience of being in a wheelchair pushed by someone else, but everyone is different. If you’re pushing a wheelchair for someone new then you should ask them if they have any preferences.

  1. Communicate. Ask if there’s anything you need to know first. NEVER touch or move a wheelchair without permission.
  2. Don’t overshoot checkouts and reception desks. If you are level, your passenger has gone too far past it.
  3. Don’t bump your passenger’s feet into people, objects or walls. Particularly in lifts.
  4. Don’t follow anyone too closely. (See previous point.) Your passenger is closer to them than you are, and seeing backsides that close gets tedious.
  5. Watch out for oddly sloping pavements, especially near dropped kerbs. The wheelchair WILL veer sideways into traffic if you are not careful.
  6. Look ahead for bumps. Dropped kerbs are often not dropped very much. Be prepared to walk a long way around via the road.
  7. Always approach bumps straight on. If you are not straight, stop and turn first.
  8. It can be easier to go backwards over bumps if the wheelchair has large wheels.
  9. Pay attention to the surface you travel over and take the smoother path. Cobbles can be painful or tiring for someone in a wheelchair.
  10. Don’t let the wheelchair run out of control. Consider taking slopes backwards so you can hold back the wheelchair. CHECK FIRST!
  11. If your passenger says stop, STOP immediately. (And, indeed, follow other instructions – see comments on original post.)
  12. Try going through heavy doors backwards so you can push the door with your body.
  13. Some wheelchairs have brakes operated by the passenger. Never assume that those brakes are on or off, always check.
  14. If someone speaks to you when they should speak to your passenger, tell them so.
  15. Be forgiving of your passenger. They have no control and that may make them grumpy. Wheelchair users: be aware that you might be shouting at your assistant more than you realise.
  16. If you’re pushing a wheelchair very far then you’ll probably want to get some gloves.

Thanks to @knitswift, @chmasu, @missnfranchised, @lisybabe on twitter”

Added tips of my own (my wife and I traveled for 3 months around Australia with a backpack and a manual chair and often use a manual chair on holidays)

 – IN ALL CASES DISCUSS THESE TIPS WITH THE WHEELCHAIR USER FIRST – 

these might also be considered ‘advanced’

a) If you will be pushing for a while try and get the handles adjusted so they are the correct height for you, it is much better for your back. 

b) Make sure the handle grips are secure and are not coming off or unscrewing.

c) Bulky bags hanging off the back can make the pusher ‘stoop’ over them, again not good for the back. Weight on the back can change the likelihood of the chair tipping over. Be aware of the dangers.

d) Leaning the chair back slightly while pushing can make it less bumpy for the passenger and easier to push. This is because inflatable back wheels are smoother than the fixed hard ones at the front suspension-wise. Similarly, tipping back very slightly when you go over bumps, manhole covers etc makes it less jarring 

e) It is easier to pull backwards on sand and other less firm surfaces, rather than push. By the sea, get down to the water’s edge where the sand is firm or look for the wooden boarded walkways.

e) If you HAVE to go down steps in a manual chair, you need to be strong and confident. If someone offers to help, 

Either: tilt the chair back, get the other person to stand in front of the chair and steady the front wheels. Tell them NOT TO LIFT THE CHAIR at the front. Lifting it is unnecessary and this makes it very hard on your back rather than rolling down one step at a time. Rest or pause after each step.

Or: If you are on your own it is better to go backwards. Take one step at a time and pause between each. Don’t attempt more than 3-4 steps. 

Obviously this is dangerous but sometimes it is unavoidable.

f) Going down steep slopes is difficult as you do not want the chair to ‘run away with you’. Go slowly in a ZIG ZAG PATTERN. This makes it less steep and you can turn pause to rest by turning the chair sideways to stop it rolling with gravity. Going backwards is also safer as mentioned above.

g) Keep well clear of the edge of the kerbs, avoid running over grills, glass, look out for mess on the pavement!

h) Get into the habit of always putting the brakes on whenever the chair is stationary.

f) Wear solid footwear with good grips, if you slide so will your companion! Be wary of sandy or stony slopes where you may slip.

g) As well as wheelchair signs, look out for signs aimed at pushchair users. Never use revolving doors at hotels. Ramps and slopes are often at the side of hotels or older buildings. 

h) Ask in shops with poor access if they have ramps. Sometimes they have portable ones. Just asking may encourage them to buy one or make changes or mention it to management.

What are some signs that she may be wanting contact? I know this is a Goddess that wants contact. Either Nordic or celtic

witchwoodcrafts:

I would look out for things corresponding to Sigyn, making several appearances that are not related to you attempting to be in places where they would normally be found (aka, don’t be surprised to see a husky outside at the park! But, be surprised to hear it be mentioned on the radio, either as a brand name, or the dog type.)

Some correspondences of Sigyn’s are:

Colors: Green & Yellow (Associated with Faith)
Apple Trees
“The Star” or “Wand” cards in Tarot
Tigers, Turtles, Nuthatches, Grasshoppers
Look for people named “Iris” or “Heather”, or the flowers in large abundance or as gifts.
Also look for symbolism in Unicorns, Bowls (Basins), and the mention of Faith, Compassion, and Wifehood.

A general rule of thumb is to look for 3 unrelated signs within a period of a week. The signs must be experienced in places where it would be abnormal/rare or even impossible. Once you are able to confirm these 3 signs, ask Sigyn to create a sign especially for you, to confirm that it is her… Make up something that you wouldn’t see in every day life. For instance, a Purple Elephant, the mentioning of a certain poem, or symbol. It has to be something that is extremely rare to see, but not absolutely impossible/ridiculous. And don’t brush it off when you do see this sign! Seeing a picture of an elephant through a purple drink counts.

30 Days of Devotion: Day 5

earth-paths-green:

Members of the Family

Oh, damn. OK.

So, mother: Laufey, or Nal

Father: Farbauti

Wife: Sigyn

Other partner: Angrboða

Sons: Vali, Narfi, Jormungandr, Fenrir, Sleipnir

Daughter: Hel

Brothers: Byleistr, Helblindi

Now, “brothers” is where things get a leeeeettle murky. It’s not clear if They share the same parents as Loki. We don’t know anything much about His brothers. But Helblindi is also a name for Oðinn. Oðinn, like Loki, has two brothers, Hoenir and Loðurr. I particularly suspect – as some scholars have suggested – that Loðurr is another name for Loki, as He’s paired up with Hoenir and Oðinn in other stories as well. So are they blood brothers or brothers true? I wonder if that’s an important distinction.

sonneillonv:

partiendolapana:

sansastark:

a weird thing about having developed mental illness at such a young age is i honestly don’t know sometimes how much of me is a symptom and how much is down to personality, like i honestly do not know my core self and it troubles me A Lot

I kinda think that my core self is perpetually terrified and miserable and there’s no way to change that.

And that’s kinda terrifying and miserable…

I think the idea of a core self is a little bit misleading.  We are all sort of summaries of our experience.  Even the parts of us that don’t work like they should are still parts of us.  Some things can be fluid – as a personal example, the severity of my depression has fluctuated throughout my life.  I have periods of years where it’s mild, periods of years where it’s terrible, sometimes with periods of months or weeks where it slides back and forth on the scale.  But I wasn’t a different ‘me’ when my depression was different.  I was just having different particular difficulties at that time.

I only offer this because you (OP) said it troubles you a lot not knowing your core self.  I don’t actually know if thinking of it this way is helpful – that all of you is you, including the fucked up parts.  Even if your mental illness was not so severe, even if you suffered the same symptoms for an external reason, those experiences would still be part of who you are and you still would have adapted to respond to them.  Maybe you’re ALWAYS you, and the only thing that changes is how difficult it is to be you right now.

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Narfi and Vali Headcannons

starlit-lich:

They like to play hide and seek, but Sigyn always finds them.

They plan pranks on their father, but Loki always knows when to expect something because Sigyn starts to giggle.

They like to watch horror movies with Hela, but Vali covers Narfi’s eyes during the scary parts with a hoodie.

Narfi making a flower crown for Vali, who bashfully accepts it.

Narfi dressing up as a kitsune for Halloween and dragging Vali around in a werewolf costume.

Vali convincing Narfi to stay up stargazing. Narfi packs a picnic basket. They catch fireflies together.

Vali gently fixing the blankets for his brother, who’d kick them off in his sleep.

spacegambit:

krystallkitty:

micdotcom:

Watch: This revolutionary technology is changing the world for kids born without limbs 

That’s awesome and I’m sure its way cheaper than a prosthetic, but seriously it cannot be cheap to 3d print something that big…

this one 17 year old guy 3d printed an entire arm and shoulder for himself and it cost him $250

this seven year old girl got half an arm (just like lusie in the gifs) 3d printed and it only cost $50

can we just compare that with the average price of buying a prosthetic

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3d printing is gonna help so many people holy crap