Sigyn: do you know why they call me the lady of loyal,dear?
Me: because of how you stay at Loki’s side even after he had a hand in killing Baldr and starting Ragnarök.
Sigyn: well yes, but I didn’t do that because I’m a good wife. I did it because I felt like I would betray myself if I let him suffer alone. It is important to stay true your loved ones but most importantly you must be loyal to yourself. Never let others deter you from what you think is right.even if they are your family and friends,and they have the best of intentions. What is right for them may not be right for you. Do you understand?
Me: I think so.

Of masks and men

bonesandblood-sunandmoon:

nornoriel:

Of masks and men

(and women, and fabulous people outside the gender binary)

So, this is The Theological Post I’ve Been Avoiding that I briefly referred to awhile back.  This post basically serves as an explanation for why I don’t post more about specific entities I know, and one of the (complicated, manifold) reasons why D doesn’t want me connecting D-the-person as [D’s title] on the public Internet.  I was going…

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I should try to find the updated source post for the idea, but I found that this general idea that Nornoriel talks about in this clicked when I came across a Luciferian’s post about [what I call] the comet-shard theory [because I needed a way to refer to it]. Pretty much Everyone I interact with immediately jumped on using it because it helps my brain to understand that They’re not going to respond as carbon copies of what others have talked about (and it helps to make sense of some of the time issues I’ve run into with some Norse Deities by interacting with younger and older versions of Them).

Case in point: m’Lady Sigyn. So many people talked about Her as a Child, and I initially tried to approach Her that way, but it did not click. I didn’t know why until after the umpteenth dream of a Domme holding rope and the key to a collar, and then it was like ‘oh, okay, my comet-shard is definitely not a young, innocent child then’. It doesn’t mean I’m wrong, or anyone else is wrong; it just means that my comet-shard isn’t the same version of Sigyn that others experience. I typically have to commission stuff because I don’t get the cupcake, pastel associations, but it ultimately doesn’t make a difference for anyone but Sigyn and I.

nanihoo:

That’s why I think Loki orbits Sigyn, not the other way around. 

Even if he doesn’t realize it, Sigyn’s everything Loki searches for. She’s accepting and assuring, she really sees him, can prop him up or knock him down a few pegs when he needs it, she’s his equal, in good time and bad. Sigyn doesn’t need Loki, she has no use for manipulating or lying to him. She can stand on her own two feet just fine without him and that gives him the freedom to go on his little chaos runs. I think that also gives him the drive to earn her attention. 

He may come and go, but wherever Sigyn goes Loki’s sure to be somewhere in orbit around her.